When is the right time to have sex with a new partner
Sex is known to break down barriers and lead to better communication in the couple’s relationship. The almost general answer to answer the question “when is it okay to have sex with your new partner” is whenever you feel ready for it, but with a few details:
- It depends on what you are looking for in a partner. If all you want from that person is the sexual side, then it doesn’t make sense to waste time with details or courtesy meetings.
- In the case of women, it is often necessary to create an emotional connection before the first sexual contact with a new partner. If this does not exist, it is possible that the relationship will fall apart after the first love match, without giving the partner a chance to be discovered by it.
- There are men who like to flirt and / or court before the first sex, and if the woman gives in too easily, there is a risk that interest in her will decrease later.
- If your new dating partner is attracted to you and you think you can start a long-term relationship with him, it’s best not to rush into bed until you get to know him / her better and feel comfortable moving on to the next step. Otherwise, you risk that the person stays only in the relationship for a short period of time, just for the sake of sexual attraction.
When the time comes, it’s a good idea to keep a few unwritten “rules” in mind:
- In the first intercourse, keep it to basic. You don’t have to be overzealous in trying to show how good you are in bed. Sex games and toys, complicated positions keep them for later.
- Sometimes the first sex intercourse is more “awkward”. Don’t be disappointed and give it time, so that you can get to know each other better “in bed”.
- Don’t say “I love you”. Not yet, regardless of the circumstances in which you met. You may instill the idea of suffocating your partner.
- No matter how wow the moment was, don’t compare. Regardless of whether your intention is a good one, and you want to convey that the current partner is superior to the former, the comparison has no place.
Regardless of the choice you make, enjoy the full moment without feeling pressured by any kind of partner, friends, media articles, etc. The right time for a new intercourse is just your decision and should not be the result of a constraint.
